1. Describe the circumstances of the best sex you’ve ever had.


2. Describe one fulfilled sexual fantasy.


3. What fantasy of yours would you most like to enact?


4. What fantasy of yours is best kept a fantasy?


5. What's the worst situation sex has gotten you into?


6. What's the most inappropriate sexual situation you've ever been in?


7. What’s the best come-on you’ve ever heard?


8. What's the strangest?


9. What the oddest thing you've ever thought about while having sex?


10. What's your craziest sex story that your friends still don't believe?


11. Tell us your best story about getting caught in the act.


12. What is your most common source for new fantasies and new ideas of what to do in bed?


13. What's the minimum sexual activity that counts as cheating?


14. If you have an "arrangement" with a long-term partner that allows for sex with others under limited circumstances, what are those circumstances?


15. Is there a sensual pleasure that you would choose over sex if forced to give up one or the other?


16. What's your most embarrassing masturbation story?


17. Tell us about the best sexual surprise you've ever had.


18. Tell us about a dream come true that went bad.


19. What's the strangest place you've had sex?


20. What's the strangest place you've masturbated?

21. What's your favorite sex toy?

22. What's your favorite sex toy that wasn't intended to be a sex toy?

23. What sexual discovery has changed your life?

24. What is your favorite kink, and why does that turn you on?

25. What's the most unusual thing you do to get yourself in the mood?

26. What's your most embarrassing inhibition?

27. What's your best story about watching or being watched?

28. What would improve your sex life?

29. What's the best response you've gotten to delivering challenging/ unexpected news to a potential sex partner (e.g. you're HIV positive, married, or passing for a different gender)?

30. What would your utopian sexual society look like?


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